What To Text Right After Matching (The First 5 Minutes)

Reply rate drops 40% if you wait more than 2 hours after matching. But don't message in the first 60 seconds either — feels needy.

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The lines (and why they work)

Best window: 15-90 min after matching. Feels natural, not overeager.

Why it works: She's still in the app; still remembers your profile.

Lead with a question about her, not a statement about you.

Why it works: Questions about her convert 2.3x better than self-intros.

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FAQ

Is it bad to message right after matching?

Messaging within 60 seconds can read as bot-like. Wait at least 15 min.

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