How To Respond To "hbu" (How About You)
"hbu" means she's asking back — the thread has life. This is the hand-off where most guys botch it with "nothing" or "same".
Generate a reply in 10 seconds
2 replies that work
“honestly? just ate the worst burger of my life and I need to tell someone. is this a safe space.”
Why it works: Funny, oversharing, invites her to play therapist/friend.
“I was literally about to text you to say your bio made my day. your turn.”
Why it works: Compliment via callback + turn-takes.
Unlimited replies, every tone
Rizzly reads her message + your context and writes a reply in your voice. Free for 3 days.
Download on iOSFAQ
Can I just reply "same" to hbu?
Only if you follow with something substantial. "same — also, quick question:..." works. Plain "same" kills threads.
What does 'hbu' mean when a guy or girl sends it?
'Hbu' is a common abbreviation for 'How About You.' It's typically used as a reciprocal question after you've shared something about yourself, indicating they're interested in hearing your response.
How can I reply to 'hbu' in a flirty or funny way without being boring?
Inject humor or a playful challenge into your response. Try something like, 'Just pondering if pineapples belong on pizza, hbu?' or 'I was just about to embark on a daring quest for snacks – care to join?'
Is 'hbu' a red flag, or does it mean they like me if they send it?
Sending 'hbu' is rarely a red flag; it's a polite and common way to keep a conversation going. It suggests they're engaged and want to hear more from you, which is a positive sign of interest.