How To Respond To "hbu" (How About You)

"hbu" means she's asking back — the thread has life. This is the hand-off where most guys botch it with "nothing" or "same".

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2 replies that work

honestly? just ate the worst burger of my life and I need to tell someone. is this a safe space.

Why it works: Funny, oversharing, invites her to play therapist/friend.

I was literally about to text you to say your bio made my day. your turn.

Why it works: Compliment via callback + turn-takes.

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FAQ

Can I just reply "same" to hbu?

Only if you follow with something substantial. "same — also, quick question:..." works. Plain "same" kills threads.

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